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I Scream, You Scream

The ice cream man is causing ill humor in Downers Grove neighborhoods.

It’s not a stretch to imagine the scene:

My family and I sit down to dinner in our dining room (yes, the dining room—it’s there, so we’re going to use it). The weather is gorgeous, finally, and the windows are open wide. We’re eating and chatting (and bickering, but try to ignore that part) as neighbors saunter by, and cardinals sing outside the window. When. . .


DO YOUR EARS HANG LOW, DO THEY WOBBLE TO AND FRO?

It's the ice cream man.

Now imagine a Friday evening: My husband is home from work, tackling some light yard work and feeling guilty he hasn’t had a chance to do more. But the kids want to play at the park, so we walk down the block. Soon half the neighborhood has joined us; kids play and parents laugh. It’s another idyllic night in Downers Grove until. . .

HELLO? TURKEY IN THE STRAW, TURKEY IN THE HAY!

He's baaack.

I rarely was allowed to partake in ice cream truck offerings as a kid. Likewise, my kids already know the answer when they hear that blaring electronic muzak, and that answer is “no.” It’s “no” because the “ice cream” is overpriced junk, and I’m nothing if not an ice cream snob. I also refuse to submit to a treat before dinner or a second dessert just because a shady-looking van drives by.

I admit I feel a little mean—I remember the thrill of hearing the truck coming, running inside just in case my mom changed her mind, then running down the block to catch up with a handful of quarters. Granted, on my cul-du-sac in the 1980s, a visit from the ice cream man was a special occurrence. Now his drive-by is a daily ritual whenever temps are above 45°, and it’s grown tiresome.

The ice cream man has intruded upon playtime in our yard, preschool picnics, my son’s baseball games, even a family wedding (although it wasn’t local). We hear him winding through our neighborhood well before the truck passes our house, and long after, too.

Those minutes would be more tolerable if I thought they were anything more than an attempt to make a few bucks off of kids eager for a high fructose corn syrup fix. Or maybe if the van was a real ice cream truck with a bell, just for old times’ sake.

But the way it is? The magic is gone. I think it’s time for the ice cream man to disappear, too.

Scott C. May 12, 2011 at 06:29 pm
Standing up in my office and slow clapping for that post, Terri.
Steve G. May 12, 2011 at 07:49 pm
I was raised in Cook County. Much coarser environment than DuPage. :)
Steve G. May 12, 2011 at 07:51 pm
It's exclusive to the for-pay website that I'm developing. It's going to feature many a bawdy limerick and the occasional sea shanty as well.
Elaine Johnson May 12, 2011 at 09:14 pm
Oh, you got me going with that, Terri. My oldest went away to college this year and I, too, would love to have those years back. Little did I realize (until my children turned the corner from little kids to young adults) how very fast it goes and how very much I would miss it.
Andrea Knudsen May 12, 2011 at 09:56 pm
Please take my column for what it is: my personal opinion on growing up in Downers Grove as someone who grew up here and is raising a family here. Not every issue is a crisis, but I always like to promote conversation about experiences kids are likely to remember, some for better, some for worse. Some have changed since I was a kid, some remain the same, and some remain the same but my perspective has changed.
The ice cream truck's muzak *does* bug me—I'd rather it not be the forced-soundtrack of summer. And I stand by my musing that jingle bells—or even music-box music, which is what I think they played circa 1983—would be an improvement. Would I like to see, er, hear a change? Sure. But I promise it's not keeping me up at night. ;) As I mentioned, I'm an ice cream snob: every once in a while, my family sits outside Every Day's a Sundae and watches the trains, or "plays" chess at Oberweis. Those are our magic ice cream moments, and they taste good, too! Thanks to all of you, for reading and joining in.
David Fisher May 12, 2011 at 10:02 pm
I love the Ice Cream man or as I affectionately call him "Tthe Popsicle Man! " Way to negative on the logic of a guy driving a Good Humor truck or motor vehicle to sell his goods. It is nostalgic and really fun if you hear the music in the distance, jump on your bike with your kids and try to chase him down and locate him for that all delicious fudgecicle or Rainbow Bomp buster on s hot summer day ! Part of it is the experience. I have fond memories of doing that when I was a kid and begging my mom on the fly for a handful of quarters to give the high school kid driving in the white van with the freezer in the back trying to make summer money. Good times! Hope to hear that music a lot this summer!
Eileen Kenah May 13, 2011 at 02:09 am
Interestingly enough Tony, I went to HIgh School for a year with Kuklinski's daughter. That was before he was arrested and anyone knew he was a hitman.
Eileen Kenah May 13, 2011 at 02:18 am
It is not the "Ice Cream Man" per say that I am against. It is the fact that we have about 2 a day coming by our house sometimes. I have such fond memories of the Ice Cream Truck - because we only were aloud to get something on a special occasion. When I grew up, the truck only came by a couple of times a summer so it was special. Now my kids are immune to the music. It is like background music because they hear it so much.
I am completely against Big Government or taxes, but I would love to see Ice Cream Trucks licensed in Downers Grove.
Dom May 13, 2011 at 11:34 am
Let Andrea keep writing about ice cream trucks. While the adults of Downers Grove worry about the important things. Like the economy and how to make ends meet. Complete waste of time. You get a chance to write an article and that's what you select. You fit the pattern perfectly.
Scott Theisen May 13, 2011 at 12:04 pm
Dom...that's unfair. Not a complete waste of time, it gave you an opportunity to vent...surely you're not wasting your time?
We've got nothing if we can't for a moment relate to each other about the profound and mundane.
Elaine Johnson May 13, 2011 at 12:12 pm
Thank you, Scott. It's always dangerous to judge someone on one column, one comment or one conversation. For the record, I've seen Andrea at school board meetings--one of a handful of residents who take the time to attend. She's serious and thoughtful and, like all columnists, is free to write what she wishes. And clearly, readers responded to this column.
Maybe you have thoughts you'd like to share on a regular basis, Dom? If so, you can reach me at elaine@patch.com.
Susan Carroll May 13, 2011 at 12:32 pm
I'm trying to think of a news medium that doesn't include a mix of hard news and human interest stories. I can't.
Susan Carroll May 13, 2011 at 12:35 pm
You've hit the nail on the head for me, Eileen. I don't hate the ice cream man CONCEPT, but its implementation can ruin the "specialness" of the event.
Marie McDowell May 13, 2011 at 01:49 pm
YAY Terri! I agree - I love to hear the icecream man. We don't usually buy anything but every once in a while it is a great treat - and it means summer is here! I wait long enough to get through winter. I'd rather hear the icecream man every day than shovel my driveway or scrape my windows each morning. And, yeah, he's past your house in a minute or two anyway....
Marie McDowell May 13, 2011 at 01:52 pm
They come by twice a day? No biggie - don't buy something! Just make the occasional exception and it'll be a huge treat for your kids!
Scott Theisen May 13, 2011 at 02:02 pm
No sweat. You and I know...hard to please everyone. Especially me...such a radical.
Best
Tony Cesare May 13, 2011 at 02:08 pm
Wow, unnecessarily harsh, again.
Yea, you know these 'wimen' Dom, give em' a bit of lernin' and they think they can write whatever they want..
Steve G. May 13, 2011 at 02:13 pm
If you're coming to Patch looking for nonstop hard-hitting economic analysis, then you're doing it wrong.
Ray May 13, 2011 at 02:43 pm
Tried the "There's the music truck" thing, but our kid figured it out.
I'd personally buy ice cream from him all the time if he switched to playing some Skynyrd.
Mark Thoman May 14, 2011 at 02:18 pm
Our kids had the option of using their allowance, but rarely did. More likely it would trigger a freezer raid or they'd start lobbying for a DQ visit.
The music 10-15 years ago was very garbled and distorted, and it seems much better now. Never really seemed a bother, just a sound of summer.
Concerned resident May 14, 2011 at 11:24 pm
Yes, Scott I agree with you. Wow! "Bah humbug" is right. Gosh there are so many other things to be disgruntled over. Too many control freaks out there. A bell would be nice. To see the eager look of anticipation on the kids faces and even on the adults faces (myself included) to be able to have a surprise treat is so reminiscent of summer. Nothing wrong with a little joy! Not enough of that these days... Magical indeed Tina. My children enjoyed this ritual as well and all 4 of them eat healthy, are fit and run or bike daily.
Katherine May 15, 2011 at 03:28 pm
Hasn't anyone here lived in Chicago? My neighborhood had the ice cream truck, bicycle peddled ice cream, churros and other assorted goods come down our block in intervals of 5 minutes - all day long, 7 days a week. The occasional Ice-cream truck is a blessing. If they would only slow down long enough for us to get to him, it would be great.
Mouse May 15, 2011 at 05:02 pm
Back before the earths crust cooled and I lived in DG (1980's) I remember that the bucolic suburban atmosphere happily included things like the ice cream truck. Its appearance was a sure sign of spring. It appears that in the 18 years since I left some residents have forgotten the things that can bring a little smile to their faces. Instead they find trivial nonsense like this to complain about. I suppose that is to be expected. I was very involved in my community there and it saddens me to see that community spirit gone.
Beth Bales May 15, 2011 at 08:39 pm
You can always say "no." Just because the truck is there, doesn't mean you have to partake. What's annoying to you is putting food on someone else's table. Of course it's overpriced (compared to buying it at the store) -- it's instant gratification and you're paying for having it right there, no muss, no fuss.
I worked as an ice cream truck driver in the summer of 1976. It's not necessarily easy. It's boring and, in my case, you had to ring the bill: no programmed music. So you had to ring the bell the right amount, and in the right cadence. You have to drive slowly, but not too slowly. Etc. etc. etc. And again -- you don't want your kids to have that stuff? Say no -- but say yes upon occasion!
Suzy Ravasio Chudzik May 15, 2011 at 09:49 pm
When the kids were little, the neighborhood moms convinced the kids that when the music was playing the truck was actually out of ice cream and heading back to the "shop" to get more. That concept only lasted a couple summers!
Rick Anderson May 16, 2011 at 03:35 am
I equate the ice cream truck music to watching Barney the Purple Dinosaur. It grates on me. I'd rather be waterboarded.
Doug Grier May 18, 2011 at 06:40 pm
Well at least in NE Downers the ice cream truck drowns out all the noise from the jets flying over our heads every 30 seconds and the constant drone of highway traffic from 88/355/Ogden punctuated by tear down construction. Pick your poison I guess.
David Fisher May 27, 2011 at 10:12 pm
Just finished chasing down the Ice cream truck over 3 1/2 blocks with my 3 year old on the back of my bike and my 8 year old cutting through back yards and driveways to catch the music man selling treats. $4 for 2 fudgecicles. Totally worth it! The chase along with searching the streeets as the music fadesto locate the truck is half the fun! Happy Memorial Day Folks! Please remember our fallen Vetrans and service personnel who have given the ultimate sacrifice so we can do things like this with our kids. C'mon Summer!
Wendy Foster May 28, 2011 at 12:47 am
An ice cream adventure--that's awesome David!
David Fisher May 28, 2011 at 01:27 am
Being able to do this just as I did as a kid, is so wildly fun to share the experience with my kids.

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